A very Merry Christmas to you all. And a joyous time to those who celebrate other traditions. I am very grateful for your presence here.
Men are good!
This is the video that the medium article referred to which is based on the ideas of David Byron. It questions whether feminism might be a hate group and concludes that, yup, sure is! Anyone know where David Byron might be???
Join Roni Fouks and Tom Golden for a wide-ranging discussion on masculine space, men in relationships, emotional expression, and more.
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Tom and Jim Nuzzo discuss a recent journal article that attempts to develop a scale for measuring toxic masculinity. They delve into the paper’s numerous anti-male biases and question its overall integrity. Jim highlights that the journal requires authors to pay a substantial fee to have their research published—an approach that incentivizes the journal to accept as many articles as possible to maximize profits. But that’s just the beginning of the problems.
Together, Jim and Tom dissect the paper’s flaws, revealing that the authors equate traditional masculinity with toxicity. They argue that the article appears to be an effort to legitimize misandrist views under the guise of academic research, further perpetuating negative stereotypes about men.
Toxic Masculinity Scale
https://www.mdpi.com/2076-328X/14/11/1096
Jim is interviewed by Hannah Spier https://substack.com/@psychobabblewithspier/note/c-69409031
Jim on Woke Medicine ...
Feminism, Toxic Masculinity & Gynocentrism: How they work together to ruin men and families. This vid offers a look at the reasons feminism has been so accepted and the reality of gynocentrism as being a driving force that has been abused by feminists in order to demand and get more stuff for women.
My apologies for the last empty post. My mistake. Let's hope this one works.
Tom takes a stab at using the podcast function. Let's see how it goes.
This is a short excerpt from Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons. The book was meant for single mothers who really don't know much about boy's nature. They also don't have a man in the house who can stand up for the boy and his unique nature. It tries to give them some ideas about how boys and girls are different. This excerpt is about play behaviors.
This is a video from a Youtube channel called the Happy Wife School. It is titled “Good Men Will Be Shocked to Know This About Their Wives and Sex“. This is one of this channel’s many videos where the presenter offers women ideas about the red pill. She is unapologetic in holding women accountable for their actions in relationships. That in itself is remarkable. The video below is about 7 minutes long and will give you a sense of the ideas she is teaching. My hat is off to her! Please do offer your feedback in the comments.
Video from the Happy Wife School: The Story Women Tell Men About Sex
This is a very important post from psychiatrist Hannah Spier that focuses on the pathology she has seen in female patients that she attributes to feminism. It takes a considerable amount of courage to take a stand that opposes the majority of the feminist drenched mental health mob. Thank you Hannah!
Why I Am the Antifeminist Psychiatrist
https://hannahspier.substack.com/p/why-i-am-the-antifeminist-psychiatrist
This is an important article by Stephen Baskerville "Castrating Boys Symbolizes the Castration of America" that draws parallels between the present day atrocities of mutilating boys bodies to the long term atrocities of the family court system. Spoken as only Stephen Baskerville can do.
https://stephenbaskerville.substack.com/p/castrating-boys-sybolizes-the-castration
Justifying Women's Violence "Kill all Men"
Apparently the recent Wisconsin female school shooter, Samantha Rupnow, was known to spew hatred towards men and to believe that all men needed to be killed in order for women to be free to create a new world. I don’t think she offered an explanation of where the sperm might come from in order continue propagating this paradise, but maybe she just didn’t think that far ahead? The media is staying fairly quiet about this. Imagine the chaos that would ensue if a male mass shooter openly stated that he wanted to kill all women. You would never hear the end of it.
Where did this young woman get this sort of stance? You need look no further than the radical feminists who have been encouraging this sort of thing for some time. Valerie Solanas and her Scum Manifesto are an extreme version of this but there are many others. The depersonalization of men has been one of the hallmarks of not just radical feminism but also mainstream feminism. One example is the “I bathe in male tears“ mantra that is so prevalent and ubiquitous. People don’t think much of that phrase, but what would they think if someone said they bathe in Black tears, and wore t-shirts making that claim in public? What would the public think? They would quickly be labelled as dangerous racists. It’s easy to see the hatred when the group is almost anyone other than men. This sort of thing is diminishing the humanity of men. And there are many other ways that men’s humanity has been ignored or worse. The feminist refusal to allow men into treatment centers as victims of domestic violence is another example, or issues around reproductive rights or circumcision. Men are portrayed as not needing special care, of actually being less than human. This, along with men’s already existing disposability and gynocentric disadvantage, degrades men and prepares the ground for the more radical views of simply killing men. The explanation for this hatred is of course, that they deserve it. The "Battered Woman Syndrome" is a tragic example of this.
If you look around you can find evidence of even professionals who are moving towards a stance of allowing violence and possibly death towards men. The following is an abstract of an article written by a woman who is apparently a law professor who is claiming that women should be able to be violent towards men. Wikipedia calls her a legal scholar. Let’s take a quick look at the abstract and you be the judge.
She starts off by saying:
While both men and women can, and do, use violence against each other, men's violence against women is far more common, less justified, and more destructive than women's violence against men. One of the reasons for this asymmetry is that men do not fear retaliation for violence against women, whereas women do fear retaliation for their use of violence against men.
This assertion that men are unafraid of women’s violence ignores reality. Men attacked in their sleep, whether scalded with boiling oil, shot in the back, or run over by a car, never had the opportunity to fear—only to suffer. Would this scholar support the idea of men responding to women’s violence with reciprocal force? Almost certainly not.
Society would be better off as a whole if more women were willing to engage in justified violence against men, and fewer men were willing to engage in unjustified violence against women. To that end, women's justified violence against men should be encouraged, protected, and publicized.
Curious to understand what she defined as "justified violence," I read the article but found no clear criteria. The author repeatedly suggested that women should respond with violence to “unjustified violence,” but offered no specific markers for when violence might be deemed justified. She did, however, concede that women’s violent reactions could sometimes be overreactions, which she defended with the rationale that “the ends justify the means.”
The normalization of these dangerous ideas—in rhetoric, institutions, and academic discourse—is a troubling sign of society’s growing acceptance of misandry`. If such attitudes continue unchecked, they pave the way for further erosion of men’s humanity and dignity.
Men are good!
(The title is a link to the full paper)
Men, Women, and Optimal Violence
Authors
Mary Anne Franks, University of Miami School of LawFollow
Document Type
Article
Publication Date
2016
Abstract
While both men and women can, and do, use violence against each other, men's violence against women is far more common, less justified, and more destructive than women's violence against men. One of the reasons for this asymmetry is that men do not fear retaliation for violence against women, whereas women do fear retaliation for their use of violence against men. The distribution of violence between the genders, then, is suboptimal. Society would be better off as a whole if more women were willing to engage in justified violence against men, and fewer men were willing to engage in unjustified violence against women. To that end, women's justified violence against men should be encouraged, protected, and publicized. This will require a reversal of the current trend in legal and social practices, which is to tolerate and encourage men's unjustified violence against women while discouraging and legally restricting women's violence against men. Even if encouraging an increase in women's justified violence against men may sometimes result in unjustified or disproportionate violence in individual situations, the overall effects of the redistribution of violence will be preferable to the current asymmetry.
Are feminists the 21st century version of Archie Bunker? Yup, in some ways.
Archie was bigoted and openly judged an entire birth group.
Feminists are bigoted and openly judge an entire birth group.
Archie refused to tolerate anyone who didn't share his opinions.
Feminists don't tolerate anyone who doesn't share their opinions.
Archie ignored the pain and suffering of Blacks.
Feminists ignore the pain and suffering of men.
Archie was dismissive and disrespectful of Blacks.
Feminists are dismissive and disrespectful of men.
Archie thought Whites were superior to Blacks.
Feminists think Women are superior to Men.
Can you think of others?
But that is where the similarities seem to stop. Here's where Archie was very different:
Archie was funny.
He was a patriotic working class provider who loved his family.
He was grumpy but lovable.