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MenAreGood is a channel for men, boys, fathers, new fathers, grandfathers and women who want to learn about men and masculinity.  Are you tired of the false narrative of toxic masculinity?  Did you know there is a huge amount of research that shows the positive aspects of men, boys and fathers?  That is what we focus on here, being a source of good information and also a place to connect.   Join us!
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November 20, 2023
This Is What We Are Up Against

This short clip from last Saturday's Saturday Night Live is a great reminder of what we are up against. Listen to the laughter and shrieks of delight after the announcer says that men's lifespan is 6 years shorter than women's. How can that not be attributed to hate? If the announcer had said that Blacks live nearly 4 years shorter lifespans than whites and you had gotten such an enthusiastic cheer would it be safe to assume that that was hate based? I bet you would hear the accusation of racism immediately with lots of finger pointing. Or maybe he announced that Black males live nearly 10 years shorter lifespans than White women? Applause? Or if he announced that Black women's lifespan was 3 years shorter than White women’s what would the response be? All of these would never have produced applause and cheers, except for the men vs women. What's the reason for this? I think this is a very good indicator that gynocentrism is so prevalent and powerful, so silent and so deep that people don't even notice the hatred. They see it as funny and will quickly ask why you can't take a joke.

This is what we are up against.

Lifespans

82.4 white female

79.2 black female

77.7 white male

72.6 black male

And yes, White males have shorter lifespans than Black women. It has been that way for some time. So is it race or is it sex?

https://www2.census.gov/library/publications/2010/compendia/statab/130ed/tables/11s0103.pdf

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December 02, 2024
Toxic Masculinity Scale - Scam?

Tom and Jim Nuzzo discuss a recent journal article that attempts to develop a scale for measuring toxic masculinity. They delve into the paper’s numerous anti-male biases and question its overall integrity. Jim highlights that the journal requires authors to pay a substantial fee to have their research published—an approach that incentivizes the journal to accept as many articles as possible to maximize profits. But that’s just the beginning of the problems.

Together, Jim and Tom dissect the paper’s flaws, revealing that the authors equate traditional masculinity with toxicity. They argue that the article appears to be an effort to legitimize misandrist views under the guise of academic research, further perpetuating negative stereotypes about men.

Toxic Masculinity Scale

https://www.mdpi.com/2076-328X/14/11/1096

Jim is interviewed by Hannah Spier https://substack.com/@psychobabblewithspier/note/c-69409031

Jim on Woke Medicine ...

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October 31, 2024
Feminism, Toxic Masculinity & Gynocentrism: How they work together to ruin men and families.

Feminism, Toxic Masculinity & Gynocentrism: How they work together to ruin men and families. This vid offers a look at the reasons feminism has been so accepted and the reality of gynocentrism as being a driving force that has been abused by feminists in order to demand and get more stuff for women.

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October 18, 2024
The C&O Canal and Male Disposability

recorded 2018
The nearly 200 year old canal that runs from Cumberland Maryland to Washington DC has been transformed into a National Historical Park. Tom takes a walk on the canal and looks at the canal's history and the connections with men's issues today.

Let me know if you like this style video. Maybe do more if people like it.

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February 07, 2023
The Way Boys Play and the Biological Underpinnings

My apologies for the last empty post. My mistake. Let's hope this one works.

Tom takes a stab at using the podcast function. Let's see how it goes.

The Way Boys Play and the Biological Underpinnings
May 13, 2022
Boys and Rough Play

This is a short excerpt from Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons. The book was meant for single mothers who really don't know much about boy's nature. They also don't have a man in the house who can stand up for the boy and his unique nature. It tries to give them some ideas about how boys and girls are different. This excerpt is about play behaviors.

Boys and Rough Play

Michelle Malkin: The TRUTH About FALSE Rape Allegations

Thoughts?

This is a response to a discussion in vivabarneslaw.locals.com about this article:
https://thehill.com/homenews/house/4998702-nancy-mace-trans-women-bathrooms/

I asked why the bill doesn't cover transmen as well as transwomen,and got a number of links to "crazy dude in a dress attacks women in women's bathroom" articles, and the assertion that I was angry at women.


"You're quite mistaken; I'm not angry at all. I'm curious as to why transmen are never part of the conversation. If there's broad pushback that a man cannot become a woman, as there should be, then why isn't there equal pushback that a woman cannot become a man as well? I really don't believe the problem is solely mentally ill men attacking women in the bathroom. If no one was attacked there would still be an issue with transgenders. Rep. Mace could have easily addressed this discrepancy with a minor edit, yet she didn't.
It's almost as if the offense really being addressed is men, mentally ill men, having the audacity ...

November 30, 2024
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Great News From Argentina re False Accusations

This is a note from DAVIA about the progress that is being made in Argentina around the issue of false accusations. This young woman tells the story of being manipulated by feminists to falsely accuse her father. If you are an organization that is fighting for men you might want to consider joining DAVIA. They now are up to 170 member organizations from around the world. To see their impressive list of press releases go here.

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Dear DAVIA member,

As you know, on November 20 the Argentinian Senate convened a hearing on how to stop false allegations.

One of the presenters was teenager Ana Jaspín Carro, who tearfully recounted her false allegation against her own father:

"My name is Ana Jaspín Carro, and I'm here to tell my story. A story where not only was there a false accusation on my part, but also a persecution by the feminist movement in complicity with the justice system in Córdoba. To condemn an innocent man, all they need is one person to say something against him.

To end up sentenced to no less than 10 years in prison or 15, like my dad, they need someone like me to manipulate and arrange all the information to achieve their goal.

My story begins when I was 14 years old. As I entered adolescence, I became angry with my father and didn't want any limits. I couldn't tolerate any order, and at school and in society, I was constantly shown that I was a woman and no man should tell me what to do.

At that time, a friend, a real victim, told me about the abuse she suffered. With my school's support for feminism and constant speeches about hatred towards men, including several false accusations against teachers, I took her story as my own to get back at my dad.

I told my mom that he had molested me years ago.

She didn't hesitate to confront him.

Eventually, my dad was arrested, and I realized that things had gone too far.

I spoke with my grandmother, told her what happened, and that I had lied, She accompanied me to tell the truth, but they didn't let me, and they never let me.

And to this day, I still can't do it. Well, now I can, but I'm still waiting to be heard."

Here's the link to see her testimony in Spanish:

https://twitter.com/AndreGuacci/status/1862617369060782095

In response, Justice Minister Mariano Cuneo Libarona stated,

"This is a paradigmatic case of how the gender ideology took control of innocent minds to make them puppets of their nefarious revolution.

We got in touch with this family destroyed by feminism.

We're going to eradicate the gender ideology from the justice system."

Congratulations to Andrea Guacci and the Argentinian Women's Front for this impressive accomplishment!

Best

Ed

Edward E. Bartlett, PhD

President

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November 30, 2024
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Great News From Argentina re False Accusations

This is a note from DAVIA about the progress that is being made in Argentina around the issue of false accusations. This young woman tells the story of being manipulated by feminists to falsely accuse her father. If you are an organization that is fighting for men you might want to consider joining DAVIA. They now are up to 170 member organizations from around the world. To see their impressive list of press releases go here.

____________________________________________

Dear DAVIA member,

As you know, on November 20 the Argentinian Senate convened a hearing on how to stop false allegations.

One of the presenters was teenager Ana Jaspín Carro, who tearfully recounted her false allegation against her own father:

"My name is Ana Jaspín Carro, and I'm here to tell my story. A story where not only was there a false accusation on my part, but also a persecution by the feminist movement in complicity with the justice system in Córdoba. To condemn an innocent man, all they need is one person to say something against him.

To end up sentenced to no less than 10 years in prison or 15, like my dad, they need someone like me to manipulate and arrange all the information to achieve their goal.

My story begins when I was 14 years old. As I entered adolescence, I became angry with my father and didn't want any limits. I couldn't tolerate any order, and at school and in society, I was constantly shown that I was a woman and no man should tell me what to do.

At that time, a friend, a real victim, told me about the abuse she suffered. With my school's support for feminism and constant speeches about hatred towards men, including several false accusations against teachers, I took her story as my own to get back at my dad.

I told my mom that he had molested me years ago.

She didn't hesitate to confront him.

Eventually, my dad was arrested, and I realized that things had gone too far.

I spoke with my grandmother, told her what happened, and that I had lied, She accompanied me to tell the truth, but they didn't let me, and they never let me.

And to this day, I still can't do it. Well, now I can, but I'm still waiting to be heard."

Here's the link to see her testimony in Spanish:

https://twitter.com/AndreGuacci/status/1862617369060782095

In response, Justice Minister Mariano Cuneo Libarona stated,

"This is a paradigmatic case of how the gender ideology took control of innocent minds to make them puppets of their nefarious revolution.

We got in touch with this family destroyed by feminism.

We're going to eradicate the gender ideology from the justice system."

Congratulations to Andrea Guacci and the Argentinian Women's Front for this impressive accomplishment!

Best

Ed

Edward E. Bartlett, PhD

President

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November 28, 2024
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